Over the weeks, my cell group leader made us all do this. in some sense, i was lazy to take out this list after a good two years. but its also a good time to reevaluate it. so here goes the task:
Do your list of criteria of your future spouse. write our in order of most important.
1. Love God, fear God.
2. Serving people...
3. Humorous
4. Gentlemanly
5. Taller than me (preferably about or taller than 1.75m)
6. Mandarin-background
7. Filial
8. Decent job with regular and stable income
9. Can do housework! (not lazy)
10. Can cook basic proper meal and loves to eat (chilli)
then, take time to think of the most recent person you liked or you currently like. ask yourself why you like that person. list out in order of most importance.
1. Stable walk with God
2. Serving joyfully
3. Cheerful and funny
4. Helpful and competent as a leader
5. Fillial
6. Generous
7. Taller than me
8. Sweet and thoughtful
9. Good listener
10. Patient and gentle
compare the two lists. are they the same? is the order the same?
and so, i grouped the first 3 as being common in order though the way i described them are different. interestingly, i noticed that point 5 and 7 are actually close and the order reversed. hmmm
does it mean that i have been living in denial, or that the rest dont matter? idk. guess i will find out tonight at cell! i am excited and i know i cannot miss. haha!
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